tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post5370438802414571502..comments2024-01-17T09:30:50.814+01:00Comments on Extrawurst: Stop talking about it?Sue Imgrundhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16561248973128136601noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post-71441846841841170332017-04-17T17:01:44.290+02:002017-04-17T17:01:44.290+02:00I agree. I think the problem with a narcissist is ...I agree. I think the problem with a narcissist is that they will not admit they have the problem, so the best way to fix things--admit the problem and make amends, which it seems Germany did so well--can't happen? I don't know if throwing isms around will help anything. In fact, being accused of all the isms is irritating, makes us defensive, causes eye rolling and even makes us angry at the "victims." <br />BTW, I should have mentioned that "too much of anything is just enough" is another Grateful Dead line...<br />Amy Anayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18207304274546915376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post-18866610215648354242017-04-17T16:47:47.615+02:002017-04-17T16:47:47.615+02:00Hello Amy - very happy that you dropped by and com...Hello Amy - very happy that you dropped by and commented. Interesting diagnosis of the USA's illness. I think the UK has got an illness of its own - a kind of deluded, Walter Mitty-ish illness, but that's the topic of another conversation!<br /><br />I take your point about the meds, but I wonder all the time whether we're treating the right part/organ. My fear is that some of these medicines actually exacerbate existing conditions (as in red rag to a bull) rather than curing them. or is it a case that you have to get worse before you get better? Who knows!Sue Imgrundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16561248973128136601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post-48337472993426509552017-04-17T16:33:21.559+02:002017-04-17T16:33:21.559+02:00Hi Susan, I am enjoying your blogs. So much food ...Hi Susan, I am enjoying your blogs. So much food for thought--<br />Should a psychiatrist ever study the U.S., I’m sure there would be a diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. America exhbits all the symptoms—our excessive desire for admiration, exaggerated sense of self-importance, concern about appearances, need to be unique, etc. We even experience the conditions that accompany NPD: depression, paranoia, eating disorders (i.e. over-consumption, as in too much is just enough for us) That is why putting AMERICA on a can of beer is something we cannot easily laugh at, because, you know, with our narcissistic national personality, we really are the best and AMERICA should be on a label to help sell products. A part of our country has tried therapy, to get over our NPD, and I wonder if that therapy over the past 50 years has woken up all the isms, sexism, racism, etc. that you mention in another blog post. Morgan Freeman’s point is good, that words breathe life into things and ideas. I think, however, that we’ve been aiming a super strong beam of light on all our hidden social problems and our sordid, sleezy history by calling them out with isms. The idea is to reveal these narcissistic tendencies with accusations of sexism and racism, to cause shame, to put a lid on some of the pomposity and arrogance. Political Correctness is the antidote to our narcissism. Make America Great Again may really mean Keep America Narcissistic and steeped in its myths. I agree, it's super annoying to be worried all the time about being racist or sexist or homophobic, but if it makes a dent in our severe mental illness it might be worth taking the meds.Amy Anayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18207304274546915376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post-81806656386748928632017-02-14T17:54:13.313+01:002017-02-14T17:54:13.313+01:00Yes, indeed.
I think the marketing people (self n...Yes, indeed.<br /><br />I think the marketing people (self not included, of course!) have been to blame for creating some of these 'issues' - I am sure you have seen all the hoo-hah about girls' books and boys' books. It is all getting ridiculous.Sue Imgrundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16561248973128136601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1696647243385896792.post-55021674095481328882017-02-14T17:44:37.388+01:002017-02-14T17:44:37.388+01:00I love the little girl saying she wants to be a Bl...I love the little girl saying she wants to be a Bloody Mary – now that would make a good street name! <br />Some bright spark on breakfast TV the other day was suggesting children’s toys should all be made in yellow (or it might have been grey?) I stopped listening at that point. Anyway, his argument was children’s toys should all be made in a non gender-specific colour! In my experience, children are really not interested in the colour of a toy they just know they want it, or they don’t, and it could be sky blue pink for all they care. Honestly, the world has gone utterly mad! Don’t we have enough things to worry about without making more up? <br />Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05962552429792516213noreply@blogger.com